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==Prioritize safety ==
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Speaking of safety, it’s always wise to set up a safe word, even if you don’t think you’ll need it. A safe word allows one to check in with one's partner and enables them to stop or slow play if it’s becoming too intense.
The WoMon's physical, mental, and emotional safety, as well as that of the Tamers, is extremely important
 
As many Tamer/WoMon relationships involve some level of bondage, discipline, caregiving, and punishment, it is the Tamer's responsibility to stay clear of mind, limit drug and alcohol use during Taming Sessions, stop the Taming before getting tired, and always be aware of the WoMon's state of being.
 
  
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One popular method is the red/yellow/green system. Just like traffic lights, these colors enable you to proceed freely, with caution or to stop altogether if you need to. If your partner is gagged, consider an alternative method for them to inform you to slow down or stop. Dropping a ball or tapping the bed frame are just two options.
  
Every person has their limits and will show nearing the edge differently. Whilst Tamers may push boundaries, and experiment with nearing edges of resistance, they should have a system for ascertaining when they’re near a boundary – lots of partners like to use a traffic light system (green – all good; yellow – slow down, we’re near a boundary; red – stop all play) or a number system to judge how things are feeling for one another; these colors enable you to proceed freely, with caution or to stop altogether if you need to. Of course, one can check in with one's partner more directly by asking them how They're doing and if they like what’s happening.
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One might never need to use one's safe word, but it’s always better to have one and not need it than to not have one when you do need it.
 
 
You'll also need a safeword, even if you don’t think you’ll need it. Make sure your safeword is a word or phrase that would never come up in ordinary play, so it is immediately clear if either of you is asking the other to stop.
 
 
 
If your partner is gagged, consider an alternative method for them to inform you to slow down or stop. Dropping a ball or tapping the bed frame are just two options.
 
 
 
 
 
No Tamer should ever, ever ignore a safeword. It’s there to protect everyone in play, including the Tamer.
 
 
 
One might never need to use one's safeword, but it’s always better to have one and not need it than to not have one when you do need it.
 
  
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Of course, one can check in with one's partner more directly by asking them how They're doing and if they like what’s happening.
 
== Sensual Taming ==
 
== Sensual Taming ==
 
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