WoMon:How to Tame a WoMon

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Taming is something that is highly depended on some critical factors for most WoMai.

The most important factor is trust in the Tamer. Only if a WoMon completely trusts the Tamer can she really let go, let the Tamer control her and not be afraid. Even though playing with fear is a possibility, she knows she's always in safe hands and don't have to watch out for herself. Relaxation of the mind is a very important part of Taming. Because of that, a calm environment is also very helpful. Try to get rid of any distractions like phone calls and alarms and try to free your schedule. It's not easy to completely relax your mind if you know you have a meeting lined up right after the Session.

On top of this, as far as preparation for Taming goes, it also of course helps to be horny. Painting pictures about a later Session into the WoMon's head or teasing them before or at the beginning of the Session can go a long way. The more mental stimulation there is, even without physical stimulation, the easier it gets for her to be Tamed. This can be a simple "Just imagine what I'm gonna do to you later" to sending sound files, pictures, gifs or videos to arouse the WoMon.

As for what the Tamer can do in the session to help the WoMon become Tamed, it's all about asserting dominance. The more the dom gets into their role, the easier it becomes for the WoMon to get into hers. Asserting dominance can be done in different ways, which include but are not limited to:

  • Ownership & titles: Calling your WoMon names they enjoy like slave, slut, toy, pet (...), making the WoMon address you with a title (mistress, miss, sir, master, ..) and reminding them who they belong to ("You are my little toy/slut/..."). Sometimes making the WoMon say the exact same thing to you has an even better effect.
  • Commanding: Controlling your WoMon by telling them what to do and how to do it is great to assert dominance. Sometimes it helps to start with easier tasks to slowly get into it.
  • Pain: Inflicting pain is a great way to show your WoMon who is in charge. Depending on their kinks, this can be anything from slight slaps to more serious hits.
  • Putting the WoMon in their place: Correcting or punishing on misbehavior, repeating tasks that have not been fulfilled to satisfaction of the Tamer.

A Few Things to Avoid When Trying to Tame a WoMon[edit]

While mind games can be something you like to integrate into a Session I generally find decision-making can be a little hindering, especially if it demands critical thinking of the WoMon.

A Tamer that pays attention will go a long way; On the other hand, a Tamer who doesn't do this can make getting into Taming more difficult. This includes slow messages and not keeping track of toys (having to ask to remove a toy to grab something or to use another toy).

Any indication towards the WoMon that makes them think they can't let go, because they can't trust the Tamer, are feeling unsafe or feel the need to second guess the Tamer's decisions also works heavily against getting into Taming.

Once you figure out how to spot Taming and how to put your WoMai into Taming it can feel so empowering and exciting to put someone in subspace as it feels amazing for the sub to be there.